I admit I am a hopeless romantic, even when everybody knows I was never the romance do-er type since I never had someone to give romance to. I am the touchy type but I am never the romantic type. I go hopeless romantic over movies and such. ^_^
If you happen to notice I stated ‘was’ to my statement above. This is because of the fact my NBSB (no boyfriend since birth) days had come to an end since last October. I’m in my mid 20’s and only now did I have a boyfriend. Now I get to understand the words ‘missing like crazy’ or ‘loving someone to bits’ in the romantic level. We had our second month anniversary last Christmas and I enjoyed it a lot with him though we had to expect that the day after, which is an office day for him, will take him into a busy rollercoaster ride of work, work and more work. Of course, I never want to be a nag so I text him rarely, saying I miss him so much and remind him he must not forget to look after himself even if he very busy. He rarely replies back and we don’t talk over the phone as often as we used to because I know he is very tired when he gets home from work.
I’m a bit lonesome even for his voice.
I find it funny though that I am acting like a ‘wife’ patiently waiting for her ‘husband’ to come home. It’s a funny sentiment for me but I do feel a bit lonesome though I try very hard not to call or text him too often because I know he is very busy and distraction is not an option for him at the moment since his current status at work is a ‘pinnacle’ in his career.
So I just wait patiently until he gets his current project done. I keep myself busy working at my extra-curricular activities as well as think of stuff I would like to do with him once he is available. I am thinking of having another quiet stay at his place again over a weekend since I got to feel right at home there with his family and I really love the times when we just watch a DVD together or take a nap together sitting on their sofa.
Yes, I may not have gotten yet to an active romantic phase of preparing dinner and such, but I believe quiet times like what we do constitute meaningful romantic moments for any couple.
But I do read a couple of things regarding romantic advises.
- Snuggle with your partner. This does not mean you need to have ‘sex’. Lying on your partner’s lap or vice versa, sitting on the couch with his arm around your shoulders or your head resting on his shoulders relaxes the body.
- Place a peck on his ear. My boyfriend likes that. ^_^
- Feeding each other food is really nice, especially if its pasta (even I still don’t get it what’s with the pasta, but I do like that)
- Sleeping with arms around each other (no sex!) calms both of you.
- I do find it funny but I like it when my boyfriend sends a kiss over the phone. ^_^
- Write love letters to each other.
Luv, I miss you so much. ? I hope you finish your work soon. *sigh*
